More than half the children transformed into dolls as part of an award-winning national organ donation campaign have now received a lifesaving transplant in time for Christmas
More than half of a group of children who were transformed into handmade dolls, to raise awareness of the need for young organ donors, have received their lifesaving organ transplants in time for Christmas.
The Waiting to Live campaign saw hundreds of dolls placed across the UK. They aimed to highlight the hundreds of under 18s on the waiting list for a transplant, including sixteen dolls linked to specific children sharing their stories.
Nine of the children who had a doll made to represent them have now received their transplant, while seven youngsters remaining on the waiting list another year on. Along with hundreds of other children they face the agonising wait for a transplant this Christmas and into the New Year.
Parents are being urged to think and talk about organ donation for themselves and their children, to help save more lives.
Waiting To Live: Campaign shines a light on children waiting for a transplant
Four-year-old Ralph
Ralph inspired the campaign when he desperately needed a multi organ transplant to survive. The four year old, from London, has now had a lifesaving liver and bowel transplant.
Ralph’s mum Katie Tatham, aged 36, says: “Waiting was like living in a nightmare, waking up every day not knowing if this would be the day he would get the call and as each day went by hope slowly diminished. Watching your son playing and enjoying life knowing cancer was growing inside him was torture.
“Our biggest fear was that the cancer would spread and he would be no longer eligible for a transplant. We really were running out of time, we were living in hope of another family saying yes to organ donation.
“That all changed earlier this year when Ralph received his incredible gift of life, he likely wouldn't be here now without it. Because of Ralph's incredible donor family he has been able to enjoy so many special moments. Including being a big brother to Albie, days out to the seaside and many forest walks.
“He is so excited to have written his list for Santa and is looking forward to the big day. Last year we didn't know if it would be our last Christmas together and now thanks to our incredible donor family we have hope for a future for Ralph."
Ralph is joined by Amelia, Evie and Freddie who have all had heart transplants, Ava who received a lung transplant, Jude who had a multi organ transplant, Pablo who got the kidney he needed and Sienna and Ralf who have had liver transplants.
Those children still waiting are Dáithí and Jack who need hearts, Alex, Charlie and Uqbah who require kidneys, Arabella who may need a cornea transplant in future to save her sight and Sophie who has been waiting for a lung transplant since spring 2023.
Sophie's wait
The 11-year-old, who will also need heart surgery, was diagnosed with health problems in the womb.
Sophie lives with her family in Poole and mum, Laura Gilbert, aged 37, says: “The longer the wait, the harder the mental challenge, along with physical decline. I think you naively think it will happen sooner, but as the months go on it becomes harder to think you’ll get that call. We try to talk about it every day to keep it in our minds so we’re mentally prepared.
“Naturally, our biggest fear is we don’t get the call in time, or Sophie deteriorates further and transplant isn’t a viable option. As we are also needing major heart surgery as well as a double lung transplant, we have to hope her heart function stays stable to have this option.
“A transplant would hopefully allow her to have the experiences she’s not been able to have, to have a more independent life. Sophie leads an isolated life in terms of her physical ability and misses out on a lot of activities her friends and other peers can do, like simply being able to walk to school, or even carry her school bag round the school between lessons to hanging out with friends or even doing a hobby.
“We will be staying local at Christmas, spending it with our loved ones and enjoying the moments we still get to share. We will always have the thought that the phone could ring but it would be the best present for Sophie and her future.
“For adults and children waiting on the transplant list, this is often their only opportunity, and last treatment to have, for a potential future, another milestone to celebrate, to have another Christmas or another birthday. To make these decisions at the darkest moments of their loved ones passing, must be incredibly tough and hard to even put into words, and no thank you could ever be enough in terms of what that means to the recipient and their families.
“You have literally the chance to change and save lives by joining the organ donation register, and the impact and magnitude of that gift will forever stay with the people who need that.”
"There can be life from death"
And these children are just a snapshot of those waiting as 280 children are on the waiting list for an organ transplant in the UK right now and face Christmas waiting for the ultimate gift.
One of those who has been added is toddler Zachary who has been waiting for a liver and small bowel transplant since the summer and is deteriorating, with his family fearing he may not make Christmas.
Jade and Rhys Bradford found out at their ten week scan for their first child that their baby had an abdominal defect, Gastroschisis, where there is a hole in the stomach wall.
At 28 weeks, when Jade was having scans every other day, the couple received the news their baby’s bowel had perforated and he needed to be delivered urgently. He needed artificial feeding, impacting his liver and his bowel was small following his surgery, also impacting his feeding.
By the age of 1 Zachary was listed for a liver and bowel transplant.
He waited six months then doctors decided to list him just for a liver transplant for the time being. After six months he received one, but sadly developed sepsis and his liver failed.
The three-year-old was relisted for the multi organ transplant, liver and small bowel, in the summer. His family, from Glasgow, who also have Reuben, nearly 2, are constantly back and forward to hospital as Zachary’s health deteriorates.
Jade, aged 24, says: “A few weeks ago they said he may not survive much longer but he is here, he has a lot of health issues and spends more time in hospital than out of it. We really need the transplant to come urgently now.
“Zachary is so happy and smiley, he’s cheeky. He bosses the staff and his little brother and he’s a charmer. He’s giving us words now but can’t walk yet, his development is delayed from spending so much time in a hospital bed.
“We got married recently as Zachary is deteriorating, it was a lovely day. We’ve bought a house, been on holidays, we’re just trying to pack as much as possible into life and make memories. It’s coming up to Christmas and we don’t know if Zachary will be here.
“Organ donation isn’t something I’d ever really thought about, and I wouldn’t have thought about children donating or needing transplants. It isn’t just Zachary, there are hundreds of children waiting. It’s hard, so difficult, but there can be life from death.
“As parents you never expect to be in this position and we are helpless. We want to do anything we can to raise awareness of Zachary’s story and all the children waiting. We hope someone else can save him because we’re not able to.”
Waiting to Live
There were 39 child organ donors in 2023/24. In the same period 252 children received a transplant, 151 from a deceased donor and 101 due to a living donor. In 2023/24, eight children sadly died on the waiting list for an organ transplant. More young donors are needed to help the children waiting for a lifesaving transplant.
Waiting to Live, by creative agency VML (formerly Wunderman Thompson) with support from NHS Blood and Transplant, launched in November 2023 to highlight the hundreds of children waiting for a transplant and the need for parents to consider organ donation.
More than 7,900 people in the UK, including 280 children, face this Christmas waiting for an organ transplant. If organ donation is possible, parents will be asked to make a decision as part of their child’s end of life care.
To support donation on the NHS Organ Donor Register, visit our website.